Lucy's Speech: Choosing to Live

Breast Cancer Fundraiser 9/19/09

"Surviving breast cancer was a new beginning for me.  I became empowered and more aware. I was no longer sleep walking through life. 

It was January 15, 2001 when I was diagnosed.  My first reaction was to not do anything and wait to die.  As long as the pain is effectively managed with medication, it should be fine…but I thought WRONG!  A scientist friend at UCSF said that it will not be a short and simple process.  It involves being disabled and incapable of performing the basic activities, including feeding oneself.  Did I want to do this to my children and my loved ones?  My answer was a definite, NO.   

February 26, 2001 was the day of my mastectomy.  There were no sad stories, worries, or drama.  I needed to survive and I made up my mind.  My body needed my full support and that was all I was focused on.  I knew I would make it through and a new amazing life will begin. 

From then on, I danced through life because “Living” is being able to engage in activities in relationship with oneself and/or with others. It is important for me to enjoy the time that I spend with my children and friends.  I have to be healthy and thrive.  It is not fair to burden them with my health issues.   

On behalf of all breast cancer survivors, I thank you all for your love, strength, and support."